Benediction by Upper School English teacher Robin Stewart

As I reflect on the threshold our graduates cross today, I could hope with a tender heart that they live a lifetime free from sorrow and frustration, but as most of us know and some of us learn far too young, life presents challenges. So, instead, my wish is to empower them with an awareness that has served me well.
 
Every academic discipline relies on observation. Observation requires patience, inner quiet, focus and intention in order for a student to arrive at that keen insight on a theme, an experiment, a technique and an equation. In many of my discussions with seniors this year, we have grappled with the question of how to teach character, that often-experiential, rarely quantifiable piece of our school’s motto. I would like for you to think for a moment about the education you may achieve by applying observation to your surroundings, especially to the people around you.
 
If you believe in the value of kindness then you must first observe your friend or that stranger to know that your help is needed. If you hone this ability, you may notice that tears are imminent, you may notice the sting of your words, and you may notice the insecurity and fragility behind the mask of bravado and humor. Observation is the key to compassion, for it brings the need in others to our attention. I believe that our graduates now hold the power and privilege of a La Jolla Country Day School education. As you enter more classrooms than careers, and perhaps parenthood, please use your powers of observation to lift up the people around you. Graduates, consider it the most coveted superpower—the one most likely to earn you the respect of others and to elicit their compassion in return.
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